MSW Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Ever seen the film Saveing Silverman...the flick about the woman "player"...I know a girl just like that, and she walked back into my life last night little background story...Meet this chick at work (I'll call her Pam) some three years ago. she is attractive, a big flirt, and about 8 years younger then I...we became good friends at work, eventualy going out with other co-workers and crap...about a year later she quit the job and went to find work elsewhere...the whole time we remained good friends, hangin out on weekends, going out doing stuff, etc...then after my girlfriend at the time and I broke up...Pam and I became something more then friends (erm friends with a capitol "F", friends with bennifets, etc..). Which was cool at the time, although more then a bit wierd in that Pam had an on/off again relationship with another guy...but although we never bacme a couple, niether of us wanted that...she seemed to get extreamly jealous whenever I tried to meet other women...even though she wanted to be free to meet other guys...to make a long drama filled story short...she wanted to be free, but playied games cageing those around her...eventualy I broke our friendship off a little over a year ago, not long before I meet my current girlfriend... Friday Pam calls right out of the blue, hadn't heard from her in nearly a year...she acts like things are just like old times...I tell her I'm involved and tired of her games...Saturday the GF and I run into her when we were out with some friends...and I get the shock of my life...My GF knows her, later admitting under the influence of alcohol that the two of them "experimented" with each other back in thier college days, and just as I had done they broke off thier friendship as Pam plays games....However I got to admit at the time saturday night I was thinking of getting a threesome going, but I kept those thoughts to myself...but invited Pam over for dinner the next day Sunday Pam comes over...we have a little cookout for the three of us, some more booze..but we run out of that pretty quickly, and I'm forced to make a beer run...get back some 20 minutes later...and Pam is gone, and the GF is pissed at me....seems in my absence Pam had made a few moves on my GF, got declined...then out of spite or somesuch Pam told my GF all the dirty little deeds we had done together back when we were friends...and that I invited Pam over specificly to get a threesome going...the GF and I smoothed things over both agreeing that Pam was the problem. But then today I get a call from some guy claiming to be Pams husband, wanting to know where she is... Sometimes I just wish I never even met her
Hikuro Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 She was at my place playing hide the wookie under the sheets. Great game, I always end up loosing though. sounds like you need a blog
HWR MKII Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 You know what the name of that movie is over here in the UK... DEVIL WOMAN! no kidding it is. From the sound of it "Pam" is too. Please man save yourself alot of hell and stay away.
Mechamaniac Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Better that you didn't pull off the three way. I feel compelled to hunt down, and kill people who (unlike me) have pulled off a three way. Definitely better off without the crazy chick too. I had me one of them once, got rid of her post haste.
Zentrandude Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Longs you don't find a bunny being cooked on your stove its ok. I seriously suggest a restraining order against her.
1/1 LowViz Lurker Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 (edited) The easy chics are great for parties, but you don't want them ruining your life. Always install hidden cameras in places where you can set them up to leverage them to behave. This way it doesn't matter if you have the moral high ground in telling them they've been bad, you just send the vids to whoever she knows that she is playing. (her 100 different BF for eg ) You can also make money out of it too. Any pics? Pam and I became something more then friends (erm friends with a capitol "F", friends with bennifets, etc..). "F" for f*q buddy? Edited May 24, 2005 by 1/1 LowViz Lurker
ogami Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 All I get say is "RUN!" away from "Pam" as soon as possible. These kind of girl is troublesome and it is lucky that your girl friend understands the situation...
Druna Skass Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Man, I'd be pissed at the girlfriend for ruining everything...
kanedaestes Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Yeah crazy chicks I swear. Mine was a stripper, and quite honestly my first. What can I say I was stupid, well needless to say I spent a lot of money, and have nothing to show for it, although we did live together it was hell, and she always cheats on everyone she is ever with, and uses everyone. When we were together I didn't know this, but I recently got in touch with her again after a 2 yr haitus and had a night of fun and remembrance, and then spent the rest of the weekend realizing she hasn't changed, and she told me about all the poo she did when we were together behind my back. Well I kinda already knew most of it, the only reason I wanted to see her again was to show her that I am not that little punk kid she left and now she is missing out on greatness while she suffers through life. But as hurt as I was when she left, a lot of who I am, where I am at, and what I have become is largely due to her, so although I hate her, I am glad that I met her and went through poo, cause now I am in a much better place and a hell of a much better, smarter and wiser person.
Hurin Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Will giant robots or Luke Skywalker become involved in this thread at some point?
Mr March Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 (edited) I know it's not really funny, but damn this sounds like an episode of Seinfeld. Obviously, inviting Pam was a big mistake and any guy not under the influence of a "possibility" would have told you that. But, live and learn. You better be nice to your current girlfriend (damage control and all). Edited May 24, 2005 by Mr March
Jin_Kune_Do Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Shuss Hurin..i wanna hear more of this stuff. - Jin
jenius Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 I swear I must know this PAM... I dated a girl (first relationship, pretty long and serious) that was a very similar trainwreck and she likes to pop back into my life. The even larger problem I have is she's either a pathalogical liar or got hit in the back of the head with a shovel at one point and got all her memories screwed up. She tells all our mutual friends when ever she blows in like a tornado all sorts of things we did (some flattering, some just bizarre) that are absolutely not true. Then whatever girl I'm dating (this has been happening for about 8 years) inevitably hears about these wild lies and either feels entirely intimidated or jealous and it takes weeks of smoothing over to repair the damage. ARGH!!! Rumor has it she just moved back from NY into my neck of the woods too... Fortunately I do double duty between SF and LA and my current gf is beyond the scope of her treachery.
kanedaestes Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 And so the giant robot attacks and luke cuts its arm off and the pilots of the robot biggs and wedge scream in agony and shame Nooooooooooooooooo, anyway so I too currently have a fubus (F*^k Buddy) and at first it was cool, but she is getting very attached, I have yet to have a good expierence with them and wouldn't suggest them, at some point one of the two involved will get attached at some time, I really wouldn't suggest it to anyone. And then vader came and force gripped the vf-1j hikaru variant, and says I am you father
kanedaestes Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 (edited) But theni could be wrong about the whole thing and just my expierences are messed up and is just my luck Edited May 24, 2005 by kanedaestes
MSW Posted May 24, 2005 Author Posted May 24, 2005 Thing is that Pam...even without the sex...was a blast to hang around...which is why we invited her over yesterday...and honestly I kinda missed haveing her around this past year because she was so fun to just hang with... But speaking of threesomes (and I don't know why I'm telling you all this...other then I'm feeling real honest right now )...Pam and I had a threesome a year and a half ago...but it was with another guy...now THAT was a wierd experience, the freaky things you do for your friends ...It was a guy her age that I thankfully didn't know named Keven that she worked with, it started off uncomfortable and such...but was okay once things started -um- shakeing...she definetly got that pornstar experience she wanted out of it...certainly not something I'd willingly do again anytime soon... But because I was willing to do my part to fullfill Pams "two guys at once" fantasy...she was willing to fullfill my "two girls at once" fantasy...but our friendship unfortunetly soured before that happened Still my GF has said she would be willing to try a threesome with another girl...just NOT with Pam
MSW Posted May 24, 2005 Author Posted May 24, 2005 The easy chics are great for parties, but you don't want them ruining your life. Always install hidden cameras in places where you can set them up to leverage them to behave. This way it doesn't matter if you have the moral high ground in telling them they've been bad, you just send the vids to whoever she knows that she is playing. (her 100 different BF for eg )You can also make money out of it too. Any pics? Pam and I became something more then friends (erm friends with a capitol "F", friends with bennifets, etc..). "F" for f*q buddy? pics? oh yeah took lots of pics of Pam back in the day...deep down I think she wanted to be a porn star...a real nympho that girl Yes "F" as in f**K buddy...she was fun to hang with and the sex was cool...but there was/is no way I would be her boyfriend.
armentage Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Dude, you're on a msg forum devoted to the worship and collection of a 20 year old Japanese cartoon, complaining about unwanted sexual offers... You might get lynched!
Zentrandude Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 Will giant robots or Luke Skywalker become involved in this thread at some point? think you meant when the door knob walks in on agent1 and his gf and messes a1's nightlife with lies. a1: no its a lie!!!! it was a sliding glass door not a solid oak wood door with umm ohhh brass fixtures that are so shiny and... GF: A1!!!!! I knew it we are getting the screen door so no more incidents.
phatslappy Posted May 24, 2005 Posted May 24, 2005 If the past few relationships I have had are any indication, I think all women are crazy. Someone told me that men like crazy women, and the ones that aren't crazy are the ones men don't like. I said it was because the ones that aren't crazy are the butches lesbians. So I've decided...well, if they're gonna be crazy, they're gonna be crazy. But if they're gonna be crazy, they better be freakin HOT!
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